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Unlock Your Destiny

Jun 2, 2025

When you get down and out and feel hopeless, there is often that whisper at the back of your mind, “But wait, what about that other idea you had? What about moving? What about changing careers? What about changing a relationship?”

That voice, which is your inner you, is urging you to take a good look at all the possibilities that might be available to you. 

If you feel you are on the precipice of despair, or lost hope, or at a dead end, listen to your intuition that says, yes, there is more. 

Take Some Time for Introspection

At an important junction of your life, don’t ask yourself, "What do I do now?” but rather:

  • “What is my true destiny?”
  • “What drives me?”
  • “What am I passionate about?”
  • “What would I rather be doing than anything in the world?”
  • “What gives me energy versus what tires me out?” 

The difference in the inference is quite remarkable. The tone and wording of the questions take on a more meaningful answer for you, and by asking what you should do next, the answer could be something like “get some sleep and think about it in the morning.”

Compare that to asking yourself, “What is my true destiny?”

To seek your destiny opens your soul, your mind, your body, and your life to the endless possibilities that may await you; and by embracing your destiny, you embrace a new set of tools waiting for you.

These tools are:

  • Intuition
  • Education
  • Desire
  • Movement
  • New Thinking

Think About Your Destiny 

A lot has been written about discovering your destiny, but the reality is it is a simple process to follow.

Do not look outside of yourself for the answer. Destiny is often couched in various religious themes or by other people who depend on you to support them, but one of the biggest mistakes people make is not knowing that the answers are already within themselves. 

Your Destiny and Your Career

Do you assume that you cannot make a living by pursuing your dream? You can fulfill your destiny and make a living at the same time. There may be things you do that are in harmony and complement each other. Your destiny may not be a career that provides your basic income, but it will be in harmony with your other obligations or your business career. 

Take a Break

As difficult as it might seem at the moment, take a complete break from your normal daily routine and just stop.

If possible, take a trip, or an afternoon off, or even an hour, and do a small meditation with these sample steps:

Step 1: Relax the body.

Step 2: Relax the mind.

Step 3: Release the problem or issue.

Step 4: Invite your intuition to go to work for you.

Step 5: Affirm your intentions.

Step 6: Realize everything can wait until you take care of yourself. 

Now Ask the Universe: What Is My True Destiny?

The answer may not come immediately, but this exercise stimulates important self-discovery for you. It relaxes your preconceived ideas about your body and your mind so that you open the room for the answer to come to you.

When our minds are so congested with thoughts, ideas, experiences, relationships, money, health, the past, and the future, we are not able to make room for intuition and inspiration. To find your destiny, think about this advice from Psychology Today for those “aspiring towards a career shift, (and) the challenge is often one of balancing two seemingly competing sets of values: fear and fearlessness, risk and security, uniqueness and conformity. In actuality, the forces are not necessarily in competition with one another as much as they coincide with each other, much like the yin and yang.” The competition of ideas within you is a setback and can create confusion for the path ahead. Instead of looking at your endeavors as competing with each other, find a way to spend time with each and let them dovetail into each other.

Unlocking your destiny should not compete with your existing life, until and if you are ready and willing to make changes. Releasing the old concepts about change is a good place to start embracing new ideas for yourself. Ask your higher self: What is my destiny? Then listen closely for the answers!

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