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How to Romance Your Success

Jul 21, 2025

Are you in love with money, wealth, the idea of success, the thrill of the chase, or with every person you meet? Understanding that life itself can be a romantic romp through the years can be a huge leap in your ability to handle all of life’s romances, good or bad, business or personal.

How Does Romance Set You up for Success or Failure? 

The secret to understanding the romance of success is to give up ideas such as “life is a jungle,” or “life is hard and you have to work day and night to make it,” or “life is a game and you have to play hard to win.” 

Instead, change your mindset from aggression and fighting your way up the ladder of success to one of romancing the work, romancing your ideas, and romancing your goals.

What Are the Ways to Romance Your Success? 

Compare how you think about romancing success with how you romance a person. 

  1. Develop great ideas about your business from a different point of view:  look at your ideas and goals with a greater interest and explore their value, and realize how intriguing they are. Instead of seeing your goals as something you have to command and control, think about them as something to be finessed. Using finesse is delicate and can be exquisite, and more productive, instead of beating your goals over the head into submission.
  2. Discover what makes your business tick by changing your perspective from that of the creator to that of the consumer. Visualize you are a person interested in what you are creating, and imagine what questions you would have, such as if you want that creation in your life for a little while or forever. Get imaginative about how you think about your ideas.
  3. While romancing your ideas, think about what you like and dislike about them, just as a consumer would do. What makes your ideas likable or not? What would you change about them if you were just a bystander? What would make them more desirable?
  4. Caress and care for your business ideas that are working for you. Check in on them. Are there new versions out there that you may not know about? Is it time to upgrade your ideas? Are you so much in love with your ideas that you don’t want to change them?
  5. Spend quality time with your ideas and business, which means to have a ‘thought session’ and let your ideas do the talking for a change. Sit quietly and listen. Is there something else you need to know? Give your ideas a chance to tell you what they think.
  6. Make a ‘date’ with your business and have some fun. Maybe you take your business on a test drive again, out for a spin, approach it as if you are a stranger, talk to others about your business, and see what they think.
  7. Be honest about your success. Is it as good as you thought? Is it not enough? Do you want more?

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Is It Time to Fall in Love With Your Business Again?

It’s a common story that after many years of waking up and doing the same thing every day over and over, people want something new and different in their lives. Maybe they will sell their business, or look for new employment, or wish they could take an early retirement. However, it may not be possible to walk away. 

“Many ‘downs’ for founders have come at times when they’ve wandered from their path. Perhaps it’s because they’re now making or selling products that they wouldn’t buy themselves and don’t have a real passion for them anymore… The result is often a feeling of having lost your creative edge, or of drudgery as you’re going through the motions, and this is often a slippery slope… Yet the remedy is simple. You need to reset. Get rid of the parts that feel alien to you…” - Holly.Co

Losing enthusiasm for your business is not a dead end. Sometimes adding a new product or new employees with new ideas will help to stimulate your passion again. You could also consider creating a new spinoff of your existing business. 

To be successful in business, it is beneficial to maintain enthusiasm for your product. If you have energy and desire for your business, so will others.

Get acquainted with new ideas for your business and shift into romance mode. Caress what you have created and nurture its future with your love! 

Explore the Romance of It All!

It’s a new twist to think of romancing your business, but you can make it fun and different! Make a list of how you would romance a partner, and start with that. 

Search it on the internet, read all about it, look for pros and cons as if you didn’t know anything about it, pretend you are going to court it. 

Fall in love all over again with your ideas, and have fun romancing your success!

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